Originally posted by Risto the Great
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Dragan:
but I am yet to meet a macedonian immigrant that has returned from the country he immigrated to saying "I was wrong,Macedonia is better,I'll remain here".
Second, comfort. When you get comfortable with a way of doing things, why change? Life is comfortable here for many of the immigrants. There's no way around this fact for many: "I work from 8-5 placing stickers on a car all day long, then I come home and sit on my couch all day watching TV, or on the internet. On the weekends me and my love might go to the mall, see a movie, stroll in the park, or take a road trip." It's just comfortable.
Third, money. Gocka mentioned this...I know very few Macedonians that don't have some kind of debt (mortgage, student loans, car, credit card). We're all in it. It's just sometimes the government and economists sell it as "good debt."
Fourth, inconsistency and unreliability in Macedonia's institutions. There's no way around it -- countries have corrupt politicians and crappy bureaucracy, but the US's cronies seem to be held just a tad bit more accountable for their actions (probably in part thanks to the justice system) and that makes a huge difference.
Finally, misconception. Many believe -- or actually, put on a front -- that their lives are perfect. "This is my house, my car...my son makes this much money, my daughter has this many degrees." Etc. But as soon as you dig deeper into their minds, especially the ones that have been here a few decades, you find out that most aren't happy despite having everything they could need. Here are some things I've heard: "I've spent 25 years in a factory, for what?" "My kids call me only once every few weeks." "I have x-thousand dollars in bills to pay every month, and I can't keep up with it." Or as you said Dragan:
maybe money can't buy happiness,but it's better to cry in a ferrari than on bare foot.
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