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[Liberator of Makedonija]

Originally Posted by tchaiku

Wasn't Alexander The Great a bisexual?

Bisexuality was common in pre-Christian Europe, the Ancient Macedonians were no exception to this and there have been rumors Aleksander was a homosexual. It is more likely he was bixsexual yes, as was Filip. One of the theories for Filip's assassination was that his assassin was a jealous lover.

[tchaiku]

Originally Posted by Liberator of Makedonija

Bisexuality was common in pre-Christian Europe, the Ancient Macedonians were no acception to this and there have been rumors Aleksander was a homosexual. It is more likely he was bixsexual yes, as was Filip. One of the theories for Filip's assassination was that his assassin was a jealous lover.

My aim was at the people here glorifying Alexander the Great and loathing homosexuals.

[Soldier of Macedon]

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

A lot of 'yes' voters, including myself, agree that churches shouldn't be forced to marry same-sex couples.

Looking forward in light of these recent developments, could that be considered discriminatory towards homosexual couples who view themselves as devout practitioners of their religion? In a secular country like Australia, civic law generally takes precedence over religious law in cases where the two may collide. If same-sex marriage becomes legal, do you really think it is unfeasible for the state to impose its will on religious institutions some time in the future? I take on board your comment about presumptions, but I also think it would be naive to completely disregard potential consequences. And I see no harm in discussing them.

Macedonians have and continue to have their identity and rights denied. Homosexuals have and continue to have their identity and rights denied.

Different circumstances, and besides, there is no official denial of homosexual identity in Australia comparable to the Macedonian situation in certain Balkan countries.

Originally Posted by Starling

I've heard about that vote a while back and that embarrassingly terrible ad against same sex marriage.

Which ad are you referring to?

I expected better from Australia but I guess the far right really is a world-wide problem these days.

The far left is equally as loopy as the far right when one looks at the recent case in Canada where a newborn was officially deemed as "genderless".

Originally Posted by Liberator of Makedonija

I was thinking that exact thing, the one night everyone wants to get online and debate back-and-forth like in the old days and it's over what is essentially a non-issue. Still so many open threads with unanswered questions and unfinished discussion but nope let's abuse eachother over a marriage survey in Australia.

I understand what you're getting at, but I don't think it's a problem if we discuss matters that aren't directly related to Macedonians from time to time, so long as we keep it civil. It's a current event, it will soon die down and there will be other things we can fight about

[EgejskaMakedonia]

Originally Posted by Soldier of Macedon

Looking forward in light of these recent developments, could that be considered discriminatory towards homosexual couples who view themselves as devout practitioners of their religion? In a secular country like Australia, civic law generally takes precedence over religious law in cases where the two may collide. If same-sex marriage becomes legal, do you really think it is unfeasible for the state to impose its will on religious institutions some time in the future? I take on board your comment about presumptions, but I also think it would be naive to completely disregard potential consequences. And I see no harm in discussing them.

Why would someone even want to get married in a church that is hostile and secretly despises their relationship? There will be churches that will exercise independent autonomy and welcome an opportunity to marry same-sex couples.

If they are devout practioners of their faith then I don’t see why they would dispute the church’s ability to exercise discretion here. Perhaps they wouldn’t even want to marry if they are that devout, as some gays did vote no for such reasons. I think this creates an inherent conflict between their choice to practice their religion devoutly and their non-choice of sexual orientation, but that is their prerogative and I don’t doubt that there are religious interpretations that are compatible with homosexuality.

Sure, they can and should be discussed. But to hold this vote responsible for such unsubstantiated consequences is wrong. As I said before, if a pessimistic outlook is the paramount concern for every progressive social change, then it is likely we’d still be living in a society that has an abundance of inequality based on race, religion, gender, and so on. The benefits of this vote will primarily flow to two people that love each other, allowing them to marry. It’s not fair on them to deny them this right based on indirect consequences that may or may not happen. If someone wants to use the vote for an agenda beyond marriage equality, then it is the job of parliament to ensure that it is scrutinised and exposed for debate. I find it amazing that any positives that may or may not flow from the vote are completely overshadowed by the insecurities of the naysayers. If negative consequences are relevant to the discussion, then so are positive consequences.

Different circumstances, and besides, there is no official denial of homosexual identity in Australia comparable to the Macedonian situation in certain Balkan countries.

Hence why I included the geographic qualifier. Just look at the Middle East, Africa and Chechnya for example. I’d say the plight of homosexuals in some of those countries is akin, if not worse than the deprivation of rights against Macedonian minority groups in select SE-European States. Macedonians in the past were beaten, killed and discriminated against for simply standing up and embracing their identity. The same is true here for gays in a number of countries.

[Amphipolis]

My experience is that homosexuals are relatively normal persons (most of them are discrete like Kevin Spacey), so their sexual preferences should not exclude them from anything (including parenthood, adoptions, civil marriage, army service etc.).

I wouldn’t mind having a homosexual as a relative, co-worker, friend or… sex partner.

[Starling]

Originally Posted by Liberator of Makedonija

Bisexuality was common in pre-Christian Europe, the Ancient Macedonians were no acception to this and there have been rumors Aleksander was a homosexual. It is more likely he was bixsexual yes, as was Filip. One of the theories for Filip's assassination was that his assassin was a jealous lover.

Interesting. It hadn't occurred to me that could've been a motive to his assassination. It's been said he married his last wife Cleopatra out of love, given it was a major faux-pas that created a rift between him and Olympias and Alexander he was starting to mend. His assassin apparently had getaway horses so other people were involved.

As for Alexander, it was said his marriage with Roxana was out of love and he definitely had something with Hephaestion as well. He compared their relationship to Achilles and Patroclus, who are also considered to have been lovers. They were also likened to two men of one soul and people accused him of being 'led around by Hephaestion's thighs', which seemed to be phrased more like a complaint of favouritism than about them having a sexual relationship.

Given polygamous marriages were also common, later historians hid those details and wrote Alexander's love life in the manner of the typical renaissance Englishman for a time. The main reason people don't hear about homosexuality among historical figures is because a lot of people put a lot of effort into hiding that information. Christianity isn't inherently against same sex relationships. That was the result of later clergy inserting their views into it. Pretty much every major religion has some variation of "Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself". I figure most people wouldn't enjoy being forbidden from marrying their spouses for such an arbitrary and discriminatory reasons, so don't subject others to that.

Which ad are you referring to?

I generally don't bother remembering names involved for that sort of thing. It's basically the video version of what was written on that petition posted earlier. Here's an Australian news story about it with clips:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uE3H...nel=9NewsPerth

Now here's a video simply clarifying the legal purpose of marriage and why same sex couples should have that right:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nHLD...yMorningHerald

The far left is equally as loopy as the far right when one looks at the recent case in Canada where a newborn was officially deemed as "genderless".

People only find that strange because it's not considered the default. That doesn't necessarily hold true for all cultures, the same way there are still parts of the world where exposed breasts are perfectly normal and non-sexualized. I'd recommend reading about the case where a male child was raised as a girl in an attempt to prove that gender could be changed by upbringing. Despite expressing desire to be a boy rather early on, he was forced to conform to feminine gender roles, down to not even being allowed to play with trucks instead of dolls, the same way a lot of boys who want to play with dolls are often discouraged from doing so. He had a terrible childhood and committed suicide after his twin brother died of a drug overdose. A lot of the hardships that kid experienced are what trans people have to deal with their whole lives.

Raising a child without a gender preference until they express one themselves isn't that strange. Boys used to wear dresses most of their childhood, so in a sense they were already raised in that manner before arbitrarily declaring specific things as masculine or feminine, usually making masculine the default and feminine something boys aren't allowed to have. Eyeliner and high heels were once something anyone could wear without being considered effeminate.



I've known a few gay men, bi and lesbian women and a trans man. They're all normal people same as everyone else. You wouldn't even know the difference unless they told you or met their spouse.

Hence why I included the geographic qualifier. Just look at the Middle East, Africa and Chechnya for example. I’d say the plight of homosexuals in some of those countries is akin, if not worse than the deprivation of rights against Macedonian minority groups in select SE-European States. Macedonians in the past were beaten, killed and discriminated against for simply standing up and embracing their identity. The same is true here for gays in a number of countries.

And additionally people can be both. What happens to the Macedonian gay men and women who struggle to find a place where both their ethnic identity and sexual orientation are accepted? Black gay people in the US experience discrimination for both their ethnicity and sexuality, so it's already a known problem to an extent.

[Pelagonija]

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

Back-peddling and saying that you don't hate gays isn't going to make your argument any more credible. You made your 'angle' more than clear from the outset.

Mate I ain't back peddling and why is it relevant wether I hate gays or not? Does it bother you?? My argument is that ssm, safe schools and the constant propaganda will have consequences hence will further damage society.. Traditional family is the building blocks of a successful society, look at our grandfathers/parents they had morals, christian values, strong work ethic and they fought bloody hard to bring food on the table and fight for our independence. We must have standards.

FYI Mate don't let the the system/uni buddies emasculate you..we are not all equal, straight women don't like soft nice guys deep down no matter how nice you are.. Deep down they want the alpha male.. strong, manly and dominant. They want the male that's going to produce offspring and support the family. Even the ones married to 'nice' men

Macedonia is the extension of our family, if we are not strong then we will die away and replaced by another culture.. what's the purpose of this forum and our interest in anything Macedonian?

[Risto the Great]

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

Again, adoption by same-sex couples is already permitted in most Australian jurisdictions. Today's results had/will have no impact on this.

You don't believe any new legislation will add to this? You say "most". Would it be "less" jurisdictions soon enough?

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

So people choose to be homosexual because it's 'cool'? So I guess the overwhelming representation of LGBTI people in suicide statistics is a part of this 'cool' trend too? Why is supporting a framework of acceptance and equality for these people a bad thing?

I was referring to people supporting homosexuals. They believe they are progressive nowadays and forward looking.

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

Because the vote wasn't about those consequential issues. If you frame it in the negative, this mindframe basically rejects ones' rights on the unsubstantiated presumption that maybe this will happen, or maybe that will happen. That is simply not fair. If debate on fundamental rights is continually stifled based on downstream, disconnected 'what ifs,' then it is likely we'd still live in an age where slavery is accepted, women cannot vote and Indigenous people have no rights.

Furthermore, from a purely procedural point of view, history shows that public votes/referendums will be unlikely to address the question in contention if it is worded in such a way, or bogged down to such an extent that the reasonable voter is unsure what it is asking. To this extent, they will opt for the status-quo, and the true public perception will not reflect the voting results. Here the question was simple, should same sex couples be allowed to marry. Yes or No. No 'ifs' or 'buts' or 'what about safe schools'...the question is on marriage equality.

OK. So the vote was useless then and the devil will be in the detail.

Here is the bill
https://www.scribd.com/document/3556...doms-Bill-2017

Here are some issues specifically in relation to the proposed bill as it drafted now:

• whether religious celebrants will be required to solemnise same sex marriages;
• whether other celebrants, not formally associated with a religious group, will be so required;
• whether religious groups will be required to host same sex weddings on their premises;
• whether public servants who are employed in registry offices will be allowed to exercise their religious freedom to decline to solemnise such marriages;
• whether small business owners in the “wedding industries” (such as cake makers, florists, photographers, stationary designers, and wedding organisers) will be permitted to decline to use their artistic talents for the celebration of a relationship that God tells them is not in accordance with his purposes for humanity.”

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

From memory, you weren't too fond of the Macedonian parliament specifically amending the constitution to define marriage as between a 'man and a woman.' I'm not being smart, I'm genuinely interested in your reasons for strongly rejecting the substance of this vote. I'll admit I'm actually surprised, it's not something I thought we'd be in strong disagreement about.

I am glad you remember it. As mentioned earlier, with the right level of detail I may have voted YES. But I do like detail and I cannot accept how a vague affirmation becomes a green light for dramatic social upheaval in a functioning society.

Originally Posted by EgejskaMakedonia

It's relevant in the sense that identity is comprised of more than ethnic origin. It defines who we are. Macedonians have and continue to have their identity and rights denied. Homosexuals have and continue to have their identity and rights denied. Take the context out of each scenario, and both are largely fighting for the same thing, just to different degrees based on where they reside.

In fact, it is much more like ethnic Albanian rights in Macedonia. Wouldn't you agree?

Would you accept the result of a vote about the age of consentual sex being 13 in France? They are progressive and forward looking in France!
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/wireSto...nsent-51146035

[Starling]

Originally Posted by Pelagonija

Mate I ain't back peddling and why is it relevant wether I hate gays or not? Does it bother you?? My argument is that ssm, safe schools and the constant propaganda will have consequences hence will further damage society.. Traditional family is the building blocks of a successful society, look at our grandfathers/parents they had morals, christian values, strong work ethic and they fought bloody hard to bring food on the table and fight for our independence. We must have standards.

FYI Mate don't let the the system/uni buddies emasculate you..we are not all equal, straight women don't like soft nice guys deep down no matter how nice you are.. Deep down they want the alpha male.. strong, manly and dominant. They want the male that's going to produce offspring and support the family. Even the ones married to 'nice' men

Macedonia is the extension of our family, if we are not strong then we will die away and replaced by another culture.. what's the purpose of this forum and our interest in anything Macedonian?

As a woman I assure one of the quickest ways to find yourself dateless is to tell a woman about that whole "alpha male" nonsense. That's a massive red flag right there. Also women generally don't much care for men explaining to them who they do and don't like. The way you use the "nice guy" bit is another point against you, as it's pretty typical of someone who feels entitled to a woman's affections and only sees us as baby makers. Way to add sexism to the conversation.

Your entire argument is based on discriminating against same sex relationships under the flimsy basis of "having standards" and "christian values". Homophobia has no place in such communities and rural, hard working societies are perfectly capable of going on without it. Those same arguments have also been used to advocate for slavery, racism and antisemitism and they were wrong every one of those times. That you clearly don't think gay people deserve the same rights as everyone else is entirely relevant.

[Pelagonija]

Originally Posted by Starling

As a woman I assure one of the quickest ways to find yourself dateless is to tell a woman about that whole "alpha male" nonsense. That's a massive red flag right there. Also women generally don't much care for men explaining to them who they do and don't like. The way you use the "nice guy" bit is another point against you, as it's pretty typical of someone who feels entitled to a woman's affections and only sees us as baby makers. Way to add sexism to the conversation.

Your entire argument is based on discriminating against same sex relationships under the flimsy basis of "having standards" and "christian values". Homophobia has no place in such communities and rural, hard working societies are perfectly capable of going on without it. Those same arguments have also been used to advocate for slavery, racism and antisemitism and they were wrong every one of those times. That you clearly don't think gay people deserve the same rights as everyone else is entirely relevant.

For the love god I do not see you as a baby maker.. how dare you make such an ill informed comment..keep your warped views on life and leave the children alone.. let them grow up normal without being subjected to gay propaganda..

Typical leftist attitude, anyone that does confirm to your warped views is branded a simple deplorable.. the only red flag is your hatred of anything normal.

What next? peodophiles deserve equality too?